Thursday, September 18, 2008

4 years ago today

I married the love of my life. Now, this is funny since I swore for years that I would never get married. I watched my parents marriage crumble after 18 years. That kinda makes you jaded towards marriage. K was the same. His parents marriage was worse than a disaster and he watched his mom marry an alcoholic. That ended horribly but while she stayed with him, K was miserable.

So after witnessing that why would we want to get married? Then he proposed. And like a sucker I cried and said yes. 4 months later we were married. Yes, 4 months. We had been together for 6 years. We both knew we didnt want a huge wedding. Hell, we didnt even want a wedding at all. It was my mom that wanted a wedding. We so should have eloped.

But, here we are. I'm as happy now as I've ever been. I love him unconditionally and I know he feels the same. I think we fought so much in the beginning of our relationship we have nothing left to fight over. Yes we'll disagree on things but we've learned to talk it out. Hardly anything gets held in anymore.

OK OK I'll stop now. ;) I'll spare you all the gory details.


half of vamh said...

awww -- how sweet! Happy Anniversary! :beat

G+D said...

Oh Sam! Happy belated anniversary sweetie!! I hope it was a good one!! :couch